If their husband was capable of such betrayal, how could they permit themselves to enter into another relationship that might leave them so vulnerable?

You wouldn’t know the grief if you haven’t felt it.

The best thing you can do is understand our boundaries and communicate clearly if you do want a second date, because we’ll never assume that you do.

We’d done the requisite anonymous chatting through the dating site, then exchanged emails, and finally a few phone conversations that lead to that frightful Friday night when we met at a neighbourhood restaurant for dinner.Before you make another move, review the following guidelines.They may save you from making a bad situation even worse. In almost every case, confessing your indiscretions—whether past or present—is the best option.OR, you've been through all of that, and now you're stronger and classier than ever before.Whatever your specific sitch might be, we've got the song for you. (Side note: I'm considering opening up my own love advice column after this because damn, I'm wise AF.